Ok now I'm starting to figure things out. I bought my mini 9 through the outlet, and I don't think the internal module was part of the package.
So, I just picked up a USB bluetooth module. OSX picks it up fine, it recognizes my iphone with the code, but then it won't stay connected. If i click connect on the iPhone it connects on the mini 9 for 2 seconds and then disconnects.
Anybody else have a similar problem? any advice?
Thank you so much! I'd love to figure this out..
EDIT: OK nevermind, restarted my iPhone now it works like a charm!! I love it.